Getting a Divorce… What Does it Mean?

You may not have imagined yourself here. Or you may have. Either way, here you are. You’re getting a divorce and you realize there’s a lot to learn. When it happened to me, the divorce papers sat ominously on the kitchen counter. Just looking at them brought up severe anxiety, so many questions, so many feelings, and complete overwhelm.

Once you get past the initial shock and perhaps some fear, your thoughts may begin to swirl. For many women, their first thought is about the kids. How to protect them, how to tell them, how to make sure they come through this intact. The next thought may be about finances. What is our financial situation? How many accounts do we have and where do the income earnings flow? How many loans do we have and what is their status? What are our financial commitments and how do I learn them? And, lastly, you think of yourself. Where do I start? What do I need to think about? Will my choices I make today set me and my family on the best path for tomorrow? 

So many women tell me it’s hard to know where to begin. Many of us were at-home wives, raising children, taking care of the house, the meals and our spouses. Divorce is a HUGE deal and a BIG process. Nothing about it is simple and nothing about it is easy.

If you’re like me, having someone on your side is important. Having a road map for your next steps and getting questions answered is key. Relying on family members or friends who have limited knowledge of divorce will provide limited answers. I know the emotions, the uncertainty, the road ahead.

Everyone needs support during this time. Everyone needs help every now and then. If you think support will help you as you move through this process, tell me your story and we’ll take it one step at a time.

I invite you to say yes to yourself and get the support you need!

In it together,

Susie