Contemplating Divorce

I’m guessing it took you a long time to get to this point. You’ve been up nights reviewing your marriage like a film reel in slow motion. Reverse. Play. Fast forward. Pause. What does it all mean? What am I to do? Perhaps you’ve even talked to your partner about your feelings. You want it to work. You’re trying to make it work.

But, the problem continues. Some days you feel like your marriage is right…some days you don’t. One day you look at your partner with love and desire. The next day, your spouse makes you crazy. Although some variation of this is normal in any long-term relationship, it may not be sustainable if you can’t shake these thoughts. You may feel something is wrong, but you may not know if separation or divorce is right for you.

This is the period of time that can feel the most frustrating. You are between indecision and action. Between not upsetting the boat and complete chaos. You have a thousand questions and need answers. You need clarity. A road map. Your mind may be thinking about the kids, future finances, the family home, and the list goes on. Read more about a few things to consider before taking action, when your mind says you need a path away from your marriage, but your heart is unsure and the future is uncertain.

I invite you to say yes to yourself and get the support you need!

In it together,

Susie